Donna Lee Dodgen

On December 25, 2024 heaven was graced with the beautiful soul of another angel. She is survived by loving family and friends.

Betty L. Manuel

With heavy hearts we announce the passing of our sweet Betty Lou Manuel, 97, on December 14, 2024.  She was born March 11, 1927, in Cement, Oklahoma, to John J. Rasberry and Bertha D. (Sitterding) Rasberry.  Betty graduated from Cement Public High School in 1944, and married John E. Manuel in 1948 in Lawton. He died December 17, 1985. 

Betty began working in 1945 when she was hired by the Civil Service at Ft. Sill, until the end of the war.  She then began a career as a bookkeeper in the banking and real estate businesses in Lawton, and later in Tulsa. After “retirement” in 1989, she worked for the CPA firm of Connally and Associates in Tulsa. Ms. Manuel was a member of the Lawton Chapter of Daughters of the American Revolution (DAR), charter member of Creek Lands Chapter of DAR, Broken Arrow, Ok, charter member of the Francis A. Lassiter Chapter of United Daughters of the Confederacy (UDC), and the Great Granddaughters Club of UDC. Once she moved back to Lawton, she continued to do the bookkeeping for several small businesses.  Betty volunteered her time to the Board of Directors for Lawton Mobile Meals, where she served as treasurer. Never one to keep still, she loved working in her yard, knitting, and late in life caught the quilting bug. “I don’t like black quilts” – and then she made one! Some of her favorite sayings were: “It’s just the way things are.” “What’s the number to 911?”  “He’ll have a cowboy hat on.” If she was having a hard time with something, she borrowed her grandmother’s saying, “I can do it because I’m a Rasberry!”  She was always so much fun, a quick wit, and a good listener.

She was preceded in death by her parents, sister Jacquelyn Rasberry, daughter Barbara Nickell, and son-in-law Wilson Nickell.

Betty leaves behind her beloved dog, Tinkerbell, who could do no wrong, and who turned Betty into a dog whisperer. To cherish all the memories, she leaves her adopted daughter Janie K. Lewis and husband Kyle, Lawton, and their daughter Kelly (Josh) Ashley, Columbus, OH, and dear friends B.J., Maurine and Sharon, her all-time favorite work, life-long friend.  She will be missed deeply, but we remember the times she made us laugh (The Attic Fiasco), made us a dessert (Butterfinger Cheesecake), and allowed us to spend an evening together watching old movies.  Here’s looking at you, kid.

Graveside service will be held at Rose Hill Cemetery, Chickasha at 2:00pm, Friday, December 20, 2024, under the direction of McRay Funeral Home.

Memorial contributions can be made to the St. Paul Methodist Church Memorial Fund, 910 NW 38^th St, Lawton, OK 73505.

Donnie Dale Smith

Donnie Dale Smith, age 87, of Verden, Oklahoma, passed away on November 23, 2024, in Chickasha, Oklahoma. A graveside funeral service will be held at 2:00 pm on Friday, November 29, 2024, at the Verden Cemetery, with Pastor Kim Hayes officiating.  Viewing will be from 9:00am to 7:00pm on Wednesday and from 9:00am to Noon on Friday.

Donnie was born on February 1, 1937, in Pauls Valley, Oklahoma, to Steve Fletcher Smith and Ozie Lee (Alexander) Smith. He moved with his family to Verden during his childhood, where he graduated from Verden High School. After graduation, Donnie worked at a mobile home manufacturing plant in Chickasha and later became a skilled trim carpenter. He was a partner in the Singleton Family Farm and also operated a gas station in Verden. Throughout his life, Donnie demonstrated an unwavering work ethic and was dedicated to providing for his family.

Donnie was united in marriage to Roberta Singleton, and together they raised a family in the Verden area. He will be remembered for his strong character, hardworking nature, and devotion to his loved ones.

He was preceded in death by his parents; and sisters, Shirley Hughes and Lula Belle Horn.

Donnie is survived by his beloved wife, Roberta Smith; his son, Lynn Dale Smith; daughters, Lecrecia Schmidt, Leann Sanders, and Lanese Embry; 8 grandchildren; 13 great-grandchildren; and 1 great-great-grandchild.

The family would like to extend their heartfelt thanks to all who have supported them during this time.

Arrangements are under the direction of McRay Funeral Home.

Cleo Lawson

Funeral service for Cleo Lawson will be held at 2:00pm, Saturday, November 16, 2024 in the McRay Funeral Home Chapel with burial to follow in the Ninnekah Cemetery.

Cleo Lawson, age 84, passed away peacefully on November 13, 2024 in Tulsa, OK.  A beloved mother, grandmother, and sister, Cleo's warmth and kindness touched the lives of all who knew her.

Cleo was born in Oklahoma and raised in Bakersfield, California, where she spent her early years working in the vineyards alongside her father. In 1965, she married Eldon Lawson in Las Vegas, Nevada, and soon after, the couple relocated to Chickasha, Oklahoma, where they made their home for 20 years. During this time, Cleo was employed at Hermetic Switch for 19 years, contributing greatly to the company’s success.

In 1990, Cleo and Eldon moved to eastern Oklahoma, where Cleo became an integral part of the family’s roofing business, managing operations for many years.

Cleo was preceded in death by her parents; her loving husband Eldon Lawson; their daughter Leitha Eileen Lawson; her sister Imogene Tomlinson; brother Jim Tomlinson; brother Dewey Tomlinson; and her baby brother Buck.

She leaves behind to cherish her memory, her son Rusty Lawson; her daughter Cheryle Campbell; her son Tracy Lawson and wife Jamaica; her grandchildren Leslie “Corky Joe” Lawson, Rusty Nicole Lawson, Braxton Lawson, Reiley Lawson, and Cruze Lawson; her great-grandchildren Blazyn Doshier, Chevy Doshier, Harley Jackson, and Kyler Sylve; her sisters Mildred, Bea, and brother Burton; as well as numerous nieces, nephews, extended family members, and friends.

Cleo's life was filled with love and dedication to her family. She will be deeply missed but forever remembered for the strength of her spirit and the depth of her caring heart.

Services are under the direction of McRay Funeral Home.

Vanda Kay White

Funeral Service for Vanda Kay White, 68, of Ninnekah, OK, will be held at 2:00pm, Friday, November 15, 2024 in the McRay Funeral Home Chapel with Pastor Kevin Bartley officiating.  Viewing will be on Thursday from 9:00am – 7:00pm.

Vanda Kay White was born in Kingfisher, OK on December 13, 1955 to Othel Everett Walton and Dorothy Maxine Walton. She went to be with the Lord in Heaven on November 8, 2024.

Vanda grew up in Carnegie, Oklahoma where she attended Carnegie Public Schools from Kindergarten to High School. She was a member of The Assembly of God church in Carnegie where she met the love of her life Everett Leon White in 1990. Everett instantly fell in love, and they got married a year later on December 5th, 1991.  Vanda spent much of her life caring for her children at home. She loved to cook for her family, and anyone who just so happened to stop by. She enjoyed her time outside, and loved to tend to her flowers. She especially loved roses, which she had all around her home. She also loved to see all her grandchildren, and give them tons of snacks when they would come to see her. Vanda grew up in a church with her father, where she found her love for the Lord, and she expressed that love through everything she did. She had the biggest heart, and never forgot to say "I love you" before she left. Vanda was one of the sweetest souls to walk this earth, and will be very deeply missed by many.

Vanda is survived by her Husband Everett White, Daughter Natalie Craddock and husband Steve of Binger, OK, Son Kevin Florence and wife Cynthia of Texas City, TX, Son Victor Florence and wife Christy of Chickasha, OK, Son Bryan White and wife Haley of Chickasha, OK. Sister- in-law Threasa Walton and brother-in-law Junior Tankersley. Grandchildren include Matthew Holliday, Alice Youmans, Steven Craddock, Kody Craddock, Noah Craddock, Draven Florence, Aidan Florence, Raegan Florence, Hailey Florence, Makayla Musick, Shayla Musick, Emma Taylor, Liam Florence, Isla Florence, and Huxton White. Great grandchildren include Alaina Holliday, Skylar Craddock, and Avery Strausbaugh. As well as many nieces, nephews, and cousins.

Vanda is preceded in death by her parents Othel and Dorothy Walton, sister Evelyn Tankersley, brother Leon Walton, sister Deloris Teague, sister Rita Appleseth, brother JR Walton, and granddaughter Haivyn White.

Interment will be in the Fairlawn Cemetery under the direction of McRay Funeral Home.

Sharon Fay Pena Smith

Sharon Fay Smith, a beloved wife, mother, grandmother, sister, and friend, passed away at her home in Chickasha, OK, surrounded by her family on November 11, 2024. She was 67 years old. Funeral services will be held at 10:00 AM, Friday, November 15, 2024, at Bible Baptist Church, with Pastor Ben York and Pastor Emeritus Kim Hayes officiating. Interment will follow at Fairlawn Cemetery under the direction of McRay Funeral Home.

Sharon was born on January 31, 1957, in Oklahoma City, OK, to George and Betty Harris. She grew up in Chickasha, where she spent most of her life and became a cherished member of her community. At the age of 12, Sharon gave her life to Christ and became a lifelong member of Bible Baptist Church, where she found both spiritual nourishment and a strong circle of friends. She was a woman of deep faith, generosity, and unwavering dedication to her loved ones.

Sharon's work ethic was unparalleled. She began her career as a teenager at the belt factory, a job she held for several years. Later, she worked for over 30 years at Delta Faucet, where she earned the respect and admiration of her colleagues. Throughout her career, Sharon remained a steadfast provider, always putting her family first. Affectionately known as “Gurney” by family and friends, Sharon was a loving and devoted matriarch. Her family was the center of her world, and she treasured the time spent with her children, grandchildren, and great-grandchildren. She had a kind and selfless heart, always ready to lend a hand or offer a word of encouragement to those who needed it most. Sharon was a constant source of love, strength, and wisdom to all who knew her.

Sharon was preceded in death by her parents, George and Betty Harris; her brothers, George Harris and Jerry Harris; her first husband, Ray Pena; and her granddaughter, Kalynn Pena.

She is survived by her loving husband, Roy Smith; her children, Christopher Pena and wife Angela, Jennifer Pena and Chris, and Kevin Pena and wife Kari; her stepson, Eric Smith and wife Rebecca; her siblings, Carolyn Eisman and husband Bill, Clyde Harris, Linda Lee and husband Tommy, Phillip “Stevie” Harris; her grandchildren, Keldyn and wife Schellie, Rylee, Ocean, Landyn, Melanie, Jeremy, Kullen, Kannon, Kaedmon, Kohen, Madyson, and Lane; her great-grandchildren, Adyson, Axlie, Maci, Kaylie, Presley, Karsyn, Malachi, Keaton, and Chandler; as well as numerous other family members and special friends Tonya and Donna.

Sharon's legacy of love, faith, and kindness will continue to live on in the hearts of all who knew her. She will be deeply missed, but her memory will forever be cherished by her family, friends, and the many lives she touched.

Earl David “Eddie” Cowan

Funeral service for Earl David “Eddie” Cowan, age 60 of Verden will be held at 2:00 pm on Saturday, November 9, 2024, at McRay Funeral Home.  Pastor Blake Taylor will officiate.

Eddie Cowan passed from this world of pain and suffering to be with his Savior on Wednesday, Nov 6, 2024.  He left peacefully on his family’s farm with loved ones nearby. His chronic health conditions are no longer his burden.

Eddie was born Earl David Cowan in Perry, Oklahoma, on July 16, 1964, to Margaret and David Cowan.  He grew up in several towns and states. Eddie was the second of four children. He attended most of his junior high and high school years in Burns Flat, Oklahoma.  After graduating with the class of 1982, Eddie attended SWOSU and earned his sociology degree. This degree allowed him the opportunity to work in various hospitals in the Dallas, Texas area.

After several years in Texas, Eddie moved back to Oklahoma.  He opened his heart and home to foster children in the area.  Over the years, he was a part of and influenced the lives of 187 foster children.  He adopted three very special foster children, Robbie, Shonna and Michael.  He focused on his children’s lives by giving them a loving family.  He directed their paths with things he had learned.

After getting them ready for the world and to start their own lives, Eddie took on another feat.  He established the Cottonwood Center in Verden, Oklahoma.  This establishment served meals to senior citizens in the area and provided them with extracurricular activities.  The Cottonwood Center has grown to serving close to 70 senior citizens in the area.

Eddie was an avid fan of his talented cousin, Sweet Brenda.  He loved her concerts at Medicine Park.  Eddie will be remembered for all of the good deeds he has done for others. He helped his niece, Caitlyn, make it through school by offering her a place to live and the support she needed.

Eddie was preceded in death by his father, David Cowan.

He is survived by his mother, Margaret Cowan, of Verden, Oklahoma; sister Anna Thornton of Gary, Texas, brother Eric Cowan of Mangum, Oklahoma, sister Amy Cowan of Verden, Oklahoma; son and daughter-in-law Michael and Jamie Rettig of Ardmore, Oklahoma, daughter and son-in-law Shonna and Casey Jackson of Verden, Oklahoma; son and daughter-in-law Robbie and Allie Cowan of Chickasha, Oklahoma.  Eddie is also survived by his five wonderful grandchildren, Anna, Hendrix, Lynnix, Rose and Iris.  These children meant the world to him. 

Pallbearers include Cheyene Pena, Roman Pena, Luke Thornton, Lance Harris, J. J. Downey and Marcello Rodriguez.

Interment will be in Fairlawn Cemetery under direction of McRay Funeral Home.

Ronald Dean “Ron” Faulkinberry

Memorial service for Ron Faulkinberry will be held at 2:00pm on Friday, November 22, 2024, at Chickasha First Assembly of God Church.

Ronald Dean “Ron” Faulkinberry, a beloved husband, father, grandfather, brother, uncle, and friend to many, passed away on October 31, 2024, surrounded by loved ones. He was Born on October 27, 1945, to Freeman Faulkinberry and Viola (Shepherd) Faulkinberry in Cogar, Oklahoma. Ron spent most of his life in Chickasha, Oklahoma, where he was cherished by his community. He pastored for over 60 years and dedicated his life to spreading the Word of God. Ron’s faith was strong, and he could quote scripture from memory. While in Bible college he met the love of his life, Belinda Kay Welcher. The two wed on August 24, 1968. They recently celebrated their 56th wedding anniversary.  Over the years they raised wonderful kids and even took in others as their own. They adopted two sons, Tommy and Richard. After 23 years of marriage, they welcomed their daughter Christy into the world. Ron cared for Belinda dearly and always looked after her. They had many wonderful adventures together over the years. 

When not sharing his faith, Ron found joy in the company of his grandchildren, treasuring every moment he spent with them. This last year he had the opportunity to spend a lot of extra time with his four youngest grandchildren. Ron would go watch every soccer game, attend homeschool co-op with them, go to the store and let them ride on his lap on the scooter, and he didn’t miss an opportunity to go on a little adventure when asked. You could always find a grandchild next to him playing, him reading a book to them, one sitting on his lap, or holding his hand. They brightened his day. 

Known for his warm, approachable nature, Ron had a gift for connecting with people and could strike up a conversation with anyone, anywhere. He loved to make jokes and put a smile on people’s faces. Ron’s simple ways and big heart endeared him to everyone he met, making him truly loved by all who knew him. His legacy is one of love, kindness, and an unyielding faith that touched countless lives. Ron will be deeply missed but fondly remembered by his family, friends, and the community that held him so dear.

Ron was preceded in death by his sons, Tommy Faulkinberry and Richard Faulkinberry; parents, Freeman and Viola Faulkinberry; siblings, Louis and wife, Della, Bobby and wife, Patsy, Edith Marie, Juanita and husband, Wayne, Wanda and husband, Curtis, and Elena and husband, Wayne; and brother-in-law, David Trammell. 

Survivors include his beloved wife, Belinda Faulkinberry; daughter, Christy Franco and husband, Alexander; grandkids, Isabella, Emma, Kristianna, and Jonathan Franco and Taylor Faulkinberry; sisters, Imogene Ferrell and husband, Elvin and Cathy Auld and husband, Jerry; sisters-in-law, Janice Doss and husband, David and Misti Kyle; extended daughter, Bianca Richardson and husband, Steve; and extended grandchildren, Leah, Destiny, Josiah, Montana, Elizabeth, Elijah, Aki, Trinity, Kaylee, and Dalton. Ron will be loved and missed by a host of nieces, nephews, cousins, and friends.

Interment will be in the Fairlawn Cemetery.  Services are under direction of McRay Funeral Home.

Larry Eugene Pace

Larry Eugene Pace, 71, of Cement, Oklahoma, passed away on October 27, 2024, in Oklahoma City. He was born on June 15, 1953, in Anadarko, Oklahoma, to Bernam Junior Pace and Mary Caroline Polnack Pace.

Larry’s career spanned various roles, including work at Harrison Gypsum, as a roustabout, a truck driver in the oilfield, and most recently, as a maintenance supervisor at HSI Sensing. His dedication and strong work ethic were evident throughout his life.

He is preceded in death by his parents, Bernam and Mary Pace. Larry is survived by his beloved wife, Brenda Pace; son Jason Pace; daughter Amy Bythe and her husband Aaron; sister Sandra Pace; grandsons Patrick Pace and fiancé Christiawna Caraway, Briar Blythe, and Hunter Blythe; and great-grandson Atticus Pace.

Larry was a loving husband, father, and PawPaw, known for his caring nature and profound faith in our Savior, Jesus Christ. He touched the lives of many and will be deeply missed by all who knew him.

A graveside funeral service will be held at 1:00 PM on Friday, November 1, 2024, at Celestial Gardens Cemetery in Cyril, Oklahoma, with Jim Talbert officiating.

In lieu of flowers, the family requests that donations be made to a charity of your choice in Larry’s honor. There will be no viewing.

Kay Harris

Kay Diane Harris, aka Mom or Gammie Kay, was a loving Wife, Mother, Mother-in-Law, Grandmother, Great-Grandmother, Aunt, Cousin and Friend.   She left this earth on October 18, 2024, at age 79. Kay was born to Lester Glenn Francis and Lillian Lorene Francis (Calvert) on February 10, 1945 in Amarillo, Texas.  She met her husband, Freddie Leon Harris, and had 3 children: Brandon, Bronson, and Dylan.  Freddie was the love of her life, and together they built the family that she so adored. 

Kay grew to love sports as she watched her 3 sons play baseball and football, among other sporting activities.  She rarely missed a game, as she was a very dedicated mother.  She carried that love of sport and activities on to her grandchildren and great-grandchildren, sacrificing much time watching these events.  She was a wonderful cook and caregiver and loved nothing more than her family gathered spending time.  Her most cherished moments were those spent with her family.  Although distance and life often made it difficult to gather, she was at her best and having her best time when all were in one room.  Where she loved her sons, she may have loved her grandchildren even more.  She raised Desirae from birth and always made her feel more like a daughter.  She was the provider that always put others first.  The ultimate in sacrifice.   Family was her love!  She loved First Baptist Church of Verden and her church family where she made lifelong friends.  She loved singing in the choir and the memories made.  She often spoke of the relationships she had developed within the church and the love she had for so many.

Kay was preceded in death by her father Lester, mother Lorene, husband Freddie Leon Harris, sister Patricia Louise Hawkins and husband Kenneth Ray of Chickasha, brother Calvert A. Francis of Lawton, sister-in-law and husband Janet and Bill Bradley of Farmington, New Mexico, and granddaughter Danika Louise Harris.

 She is survived by her sons Brandon Wayne Harris; John Bronson Harris, wife Amy, son Jace, and daughter Lexi; Dylan Tate Harris, wife Donitta, and daughters Devynn and Delaney; granddaughter Desirae Eaves, husband Tyler, son Nate, and daughters La Launi and Savannah; nieces Kim Kennell and Deborah and Scott Brush; great-nephews and nieces Chris Kennell, Matthew and Jennifer Kennell, Cody Frahm, Maci Carnes, and several great-great-nephews and nieces.  Close cousin Larry and Rebecca Breeding.  In-laws include Ray and Janet Harris and children, Leta and Dan Holt and children, Tommy and Rita Harris and children, Jerry and Mandy Harris and children, and Tina and Jim Davis and children.

She knew God was her reason for everything, and loved people the way God did. 

A memorial service will be held at 11:00am, November 9, 2024 at Verden First Baptist Church.
Cremation arrangements are with McRay Funeral Home.

Pamala Lee Carr

Pamala Lee Carr was born the daughter of David and Vera Bray on July 4, 1946 in Lindsay, Oklahoma.  She died on October 16, 2024 in Chickasha, Oklahoma at the age of 78.   No services are planned at this time. Cremation arrangements are with McRay Funeral Home.

Michael Joe Wilson

Michael Joe Wilson, a devoted family man and passionate gardener, passed away on August 27, 2024, in Chickasha, Oklahoma. Born on May 17, 1954, in Duncan, Oklahoma, Michael was the beloved son of Albert and Viola Wilson.

His life was a testament to hard work, love, and a deep curiosity about the world around him. Michael married his soulmate, Tammy Michelle Wilson, on November 21, 1998. Together, they created a life filled with love and joy. Michael was a dedicated husband and father, and his greatest pride was his family. He was a man of simple pleasures, finding joy in gardening, maintaining a vibrant fish tank, and studying the Bible. His interests included exploring different religions, appreciating the beauty of flowers, and indulging in his favorite treats like German chocolate cake and ice cream sandwiches. He had a fondness for cowboy movies, sunsets, and cherished moments of relaxation and cuddles.

Michael’s legacy lives on through his loving family. He is survived by his devoted wife, Tammy; his children, Terri Lee Thompson and husband Rodney, Michael Ray Wilson, Acea Tami Charlton and husband Nathaniel, and Lisa Ann Tapia and husband Juan; and his grandchildren, Stacy Leroy Knight, Stormy Summer Knight, Serenity Elaine Thompson, Lilly Rosalee Danforth, Penelope Marie Danforth, Alanna Maribel Tapia, Juan Julian Tapia, Secillya Reign Charlton, and Estella Marguerite Mae Charlton. He is also survived by his sister, Patricia Gail Figura.

Michael was preceded in death by his parents, Albert Dean Wilson and Viola Violet Wilson; and his brothers, Arthur Dwayne Wilson and William Lee Wilson.

A celebration of Michael’s life will be held at noon on Saturday, September 7, 2024, at 1321 S 12th Street, Chickasha, Oklahoma. All are welcome to join the family in honoring Michael’s memory. Food will be provided, and guests are kindly asked to RSVP and bring a dessert or beverage to share.

In lieu of flowers, the family requests that donations be made to support wounded veterans, a cause close to Michael's heart.

Michael’s memory will forever be cherished by all who knew him.

Cremation arrangements have been entrusted to McRay Funeral Home.

Adella Ortiz

Funeral service for Adella Ortiz, 85, of Chickasha, Oklahoma will be held at 3:00pm on Saturday, August 31, 2024 at The Christian Center in Chickasha. Interment will be in the Fairlawn Cemetery.Adella Ortiz of Chickasha, Oklahoma was born on March 18, 1939 to Francisco and Margarita Ortiz.  She was a devoted mother who was always surrounded by her family.  She loved traveling, gardening, playing Loteria, cooking Mexican food, and she was always ready for any adventure but most importantly she loved the Lord and her family with all of her heart.

Adella is preceded in death by her parents, Francisco and Margarita Ortiz, her brothers, Felix Ortiz, Frank Ortiz, Antonio Ortiz, Florencio Ortiz and her sisters, Elena Ortiz Jefferson, Benita Ortiz Baeza, Angela Ortiz Daniels. Her son, Roy Sanchez, and one great granddaughter, Kyligh Rumbaugh. 

She is survived by her sisters, Pracilia Lopez (Pete) of Crosbyton, TX, Esther Garcia (Victor) of New Braunfels, TX, Mary Ortiz of Corpus Christi, TX, and Eva Ortiz of Wichita Falls, TX.  She is survived by her children Sylvia Herrera (Luis) of Chickasha, OK, Gilbert Herrera (Claudia) of Lindsay, OK, Estelle Daughtry (Keith) of Chickasha, OK, Rey Davidson (Terry) of Dublin, TX, Junior Sanchez of Chickasha, OK, Suzanna Sanchez of Gilbert, AZ, Lucy Cummins (Scott) of Perryton, TX, a total of 24 grandchildren and 36 great grandchildren, and 1 great great-grandchild.

Services are under the direction of McRay Funeral Home.

Ralph Thomas Morgan

Ralph Thomas Morgan, 85, of Chickasha, Oklahoma, passed away peacefully on August 27, 2024. He was surrounded by his family. He leaves behind his wife Evelyn Morgan of 63 years. Ralph Morgan was born on July 8, 1939, in San Fernando, California.

Ralph was known for his quick-witted humor, generosity, and his light-hearted banter. Above all he loved his Lord and was a faithful servant. He cared deeply for his family, friends, and neighbors, not out of obligation, but out of love. In 1957 Ralph graduated from Ninnekah High School where he was active in the F.F.A. He won the Governor’s Trophy for Outstanding F.F.A. Member of Oklahoma and was selected Star Farmer of Oklahoma that same year. He received the Honorary State F.F.A. Degree in 1995. Ralph followed in his father’s footsteps. Jimmy, Ralph’s son, followed suit. Ralph owned and operated Morgan Cattle Company.  He was awarded the State Environmental Stewardship Award of 2001 in recognition of his hard work and standard of excellence. From 1971 to 1988, Ralph served as co-owner of Southwest Dairy Sales, an auction company that covered a five-state area. Ralph’s community service was extensive. He served on the Ninnekah School Board, Ninnekah Rural Water Board, Grady County Cattlemen’s Association, Oklahoma Cattlemen’s Association, Grady County Farm Bureau Board, and Grady County Fair Board. Additionally, he served 30 years on the Grady County Conservation Board where he retired in 2011. His service left an impact on his community and the state. Ralph was an avid supporter of Ninnekah School athletics, F.F.A. and 4-H. He served 30 years on the Grady County Junior Livestock Show Committee raising funds for 4-H and F.F.A. members who made the premium sale. Ralph was a director at First National Bank and Trust for 19 years. He was also a 32 Degree Mason and Past Master of the Chickasha Masonic Lodge.

Ralph Morgan was predeceased by his father, James Thomas Morgan, his mother, Ruby Hazel Morgan, his sister, Wanda Maxine Ball Ochis, and a Grandson Braylon Morgan.

He is survived by his high school sweetheart, Evelyn Morgan of the home, his son Jimmy Morgan and his wife Alicia of Chickasha, and his daughter Kristy Riddle of Verden. Ralph has two Grandsons, Joey McCarthy and Bronson Morgan and his wife Shannon of Chickasha, four Granddaughters, Annesha Jackson and her husband Anthony of Chickasha, Shannon Kirk of Chickasha, Shealon Wooton of San Antonio, Texas, and Kennedy Morgan of Chickasha. He was a proud Papa to seven great-grandchildren Nashaya, Aniayah, Isaiah, Nakoah, and Nakhya Jackson all of Chickasha, Tyson Kirk of Verden, and Echo Morgan of Chickasha.

Funeral service for Ralph Morgan will be held at 10:30am, Tuesday, September 3, 2024 at Bible Baptist Church in Chickasha.  Pastor Emeritus Kim Hayes will officiate.  Interment will follow in the Fairlawn Cemetery.  Viewing will be Saturday, 9:00am-5:00pm; Sunday, 2:00pm-7:00pm; and Monday, 9:00am-7:00pm at McRay Funeral Home.

Lucille M Nelson

Lucille M Nelson passed from this life to Heaven August 26, 2024.  Lucille was born December 16, 1922, in the Dutton Community in the home of her parents, Earl and Esther Cox.  Lucille had a wonderful home life riding in a horse and buggy and spending hours plowing the fields with the family work horses.  She was always very close to her sister, Lillian and brothers Earl, Jr. and Jerrold.  Hard work gave her the initiative to work and attend Oklahoma College for Women, graduating in 1944.  She worked for the Home Demonstration Agency and as a Home Economics teacher.  Lucille was married to Carl Nelson April 27, 1947.  To this union were born four children.  The family made their home in Geary, Oklahoma for 23 years where their children were raised.  Later, Lucille and Carl moved to the family farm north of Verden, where they farmed until moving into town. Lucille was very active in the Methodist Church playing the piano, organ and singing in the choir. She was also very active in the community.

Lucille was preceded in death by her parents Earl and Esther Cox; daughter Janet Bourne, husband Carl; brothers Earl, Jr., Jerrold and sister Lillian.

She is survived by daughter and husband Carolyn and Terry Teel of Yukon; son-in-law Dudley Bourne of Liberty Hills, Texas; son and wife Ronnie and Elizabeth Nelson of Pocasset; son and wife Glen and Gail Nelson of Mustang; 14 grandchildren; 36 great-grandchildren and an expected great-great-grandson due on Lucille’s 102nd birthday.

The family would like to give special thanks to Spanish Cove in Yukon and Good Shepherd Hospice for their wonderful care.

Viewing will be Thursday and Friday from 9:00am to 7:00pm at McRay Funeral Home.

Funeral services will be at 10:00am, Saturday, August 31, 2024 at First Baptist Church in Verden with interment to follow in the Verden Cemetery.

Gerald A Coleman

Gerald Coleman was born in Caddo County, OK, on March 17, 1938 to Walter & Elizabeth Coleman.  He graduated from Anadarko High School in May of 1956 and during his Jr. & Sr. years in high school, also served in the National Guard. Upon graduation, Gerald enlisted in the Navy on a 4 -year term and was stationed out of Moffett Field CA serving on 2 cruises aboard the USS Lexington as Naval Air mechanic. While home on leave Gerald met and married Naomi Winn Coleman on Sept. 4, 1957 and took her back to California with him as he served the U S Navy. They have 4 children, Crystal, Carmel, Rob, and Richard.  Upon completion of his naval duties, he worked for Watershed Research for 32 years and retired in June of 1994 after which he enjoyed hobby farming & ranching on his 20 acres north of Chickasha.  He loved to garden and raise his own beef for the dinner table.  He was a member of the College Heights Baptist Church in Chickasha where he served as a Deacon and retired as Deacon Emeritus.

Gerald is survived by Naomi Coleman of the home, all four of his children, six of his grandchildren and a host of nieces and nephews, church family, and friends.

Services are to be held at College Heights Baptist Church, Chickasha, OK on Wed. Aug. 21, 2024 at 2 p.m.  In lieu of flowers, please make donations payable to the Restoring the Glory project for the College Heights Baptist Church.

Flossie Marie Jarnagin

Flossie Marie Jarnagin, beloved wife, mother, grandmother, and great-grandmother, passed away peacefully on August 15, 2024, in Chickasha, Oklahoma. Born on August 29, 1927, in Berwyn, Oklahoma—now known as Gene Autry—Flossie was the cherished daughter of Ernest and Willie Faye Hill.

Growing up on the family farm near Ardmore, Flossie cultivated a deep connection to the land and its rhythms. Her life took a joyful turn when she married Hubert Jarnagin upon his return from World War II. Their nearly 52 years of marriage were spent in Chickasha, where they were a well-known and respected pair in the community. Together, they worked as cotton contractors, and Hubert later pursued carpentry, a path Flossie supported with unwavering dedication.

Flossie’s passion for nurturing life extended beyond her work alongside Hubert; she was a devoted gardener, lovingly tending to 18 flower beds that brightened their home with vibrant blooms.

Flossie is preceded in death by her parents, Ernest and Willie Faye Hill; her husband, Hubert Jarnagin; her son, Ernie Jarnagin; and her sister, Yvonne Christian. She is survived by her daughter, Linda Pearcy; her granddaughter, Kelly Brown and husband Doug; her grandson, Travis Jarnagin; and her great-granddaughters Lauren Snedeker and husband Grant, Lydia Rideout and husband Cody, Laney Moudy and husband Jace, Lucy Brown, and great-great-granddaughter Hallie Snedeker.

A graveside funeral service will be held at 10:00am on Saturday, August 17, 2024, at Fairlawn Cemetery in Chickasha, Oklahoma, under the direction of McRay Funeral Home. Flossie’s legacy of love, dedication, and beauty will continue to inspire all who knew her.

Karen Marie Blackwood

Karen Marie Blackwood, age 71, of Verden, Oklahoma, passed away peacefully at her home on August 14, 2024. Born on February 22, 1953, in Milford, Delaware, Karen was the daughter of Harold and Marie Bradley.

A life shaped by military service, Karen moved frequently with her family throughout her childhood. On June 3, 1971, she married Jeffery Blackwood, and together they continued to embrace the nomadic life required by his military career. In 1973, they settled in Lawton, Oklahoma, where Karen would spend the next 33 years. During her time in Lawton, Karen dedicated herself to her work as a librarian for the public school system, a role that reflected her lifelong passion for learning and education. In 2004, Karen and Jeffery moved to Verden, Oklahoma, where she continued to be an active and cherished member of the community. Known for her love of cooking and her warm hospitality, Karen’s home was always open to children and friends alike, creating a welcoming environment filled with joy and laughter.

Karen was preceded in death by her parents Harold and Marie Bradley; sister Linda Bradley and granddaughter Kyrsten Blackwood.

Karen is survived by her loving husband, Jeffery Blackwood; daughter Amy Blackwood; son Jason Blackwood and his wife Susan; grandchildren JP, Lacie, Colten, Tristen, Kolby, Malik, Landon and Caleb; great-grandchildren Camden, Adalynn and Ellie; brothers Harold Bradley, Jr. and Lester Bradley; as well as many friends and family who will remember her for her kindness, generosity, and unwavering dedication to those she loved.

A funeral service to honor Karen’s life will be held at 9:00am on Tuesday, August 20, 2024, at Verden First Baptist Church with Rev. Troy Taylor officiating. Interment will follow at 1:00pm in the Ft. Sill National Cemetery in Elgin, Oklahoma, under the direction of McRay Funeral Home. Viewing will be on Monday from 9:00am until 7:00pm.

She will be deeply missed but fondly remembered by all who knew her.

Sue Wynell Chaney

Sue Wynell Chaney, wife, mother, and grandmother, passed away on Saturday, August 10, 2024 in her home in Chickasha, Oklahoma surrounded by the love of her family.  Services will be held at Victory Family Church in Chickasha on Friday, August 16, 2024 at 3:00PM.  She will be available for viewing on Thursday, August 15, from 9:00AM-7:00PM and Friday, August 16, from 9:00AM-3:00PM at McRay Funeral Home in Chickasha.

Sue was born on July 29, 1954 in Oklahoma City to Delmer and Betty Humphreys.  She married Jackie Ray Chaney, of Chickasha, on August 11, 1972.  She was a dedicated homemaker and mother to their four sons, Adam, Kevin, Mark and Jeremy.   Her family and her faith were the most important things to her. 

She was very active in the church and always the first to volunteer when any need arose, whether by playing the piano, teaching a class, driving the van or spending a week with the kids at camp in the heat of the summer.  She loved working with the children and she never met a stranger.  Just ten minutes with her and you were family.  She made everyone she met feel seen, understood, and loved and you were definitely not walking away without a hug. 

The ultimate joy of her life were her eleven grandchildren.  She showered them with her love and always showed them a patience that her sons were unaware she possessed.  She traveled miles to watch games and attend celebrations.  She had a whole room dedicated to making sure no one had to pack a bag to come stay at Mamaw’s, just show up and all will be provided.  They never doubted how proud she was of each of them and how much they were loved.

Sue was preceded in death by her parents Delmer and Betty Humphreys, of Chickasha; parents by marriage Felix and Sylvia Chaney, of Chickasha; brother Orville Humphreys, who died in infancy; sister Jean Ross, of Carnegie; and brother Gale Humphreys, of Atoka.

Sue is survived by her husband of 52 years, Jackie Chaney, of Chickasha; sister Judy & Ray Martin, of Newcastle; sister Barbara & Larry Anthony, of Atlanta, GA; sister Ronda Humphreys, of Atoka; sons and wives, Adam & Brandy Chaney, of Chickasha; Kevin & Aubrie Chaney, of Broken Arrow; Mark & Amy Chaney, of Pilot Pointe, TX; Jeremy & Lori Chaney, of Chickasha; grandchildren Elizabeth, Devin, Emma, Madysen, Megean & husband Logan, Jessica, Kaelyn, Michael, Kamryn, Ellasyn, and Addisyn; numerous nephews, nieces, cousins and others.

Sue treasured the children of the church and to honor that love, in lieu of flowers, please donate to the church youth group of your choice. 

Hazel Pamilia Hughes

Hazel Hughes was born in Isabella, Alabama on August 4, 1948.  She died on August 1, 2024 in Chickasha, Oklahoma.  She was buried in the Fairlawn Cemetery in Chickasha, OKlahoma.

Geneva Maxine Anderson

Geneva Maxine Anderson, age 86 of Chickasha, was born the daughter of John and Nadine Anderson on January 24, 1938 in Lindsay, OK.  She gained her wings on July 27, 2024 in Chickasha.

Maxine was preceded in death by her parents, her husband Everett Leon Anderson, and her granddaughter Cheyenne.  She is survived by her daughter Deborah Scott.

There will be no services.  Cremation arrangements are with McRay Funeral Home.

Nancy Onnieway Turner

On July 17, 2024, Onnie Turner peacefully passed away, reuniting with her beloved husband, LD Turner, with whom she shared 71 years of marriage.

Nancy Onnieway Turner was born March 26, 1934 in Anadarko, Oklahoma to Charles Robert Spearman and Dillie Quincy (Galmer) Spearman.

Onnie was one of nine siblings born to Charles and Dillie Spearman. Onnie had five brothers, U.S., Delbert, Amos, J.D., and Ross; three sisters, Zola Crawford, Donna Croskey, and Margie Enright.

On October 25, 1951, Onnie married LD Turner. They were married 71 years at the time of LD’s passing. Onnie and LD had three children; LD Daniel Turner, Jr., Nancy Ashley, and Kimberly Turner.

Onnie and LD loved traveling, camping, spending time with their family and friends. Their favorite memories were traveling to California to visit family and to work when they were first married. Onnie was incredibly kind and loving. Onnie loved her family, friends, caring for animals and collecting dolls.

In the 1990s, Onnie worked for Helping Hands, where she loved to help people and became friends with Dr. Linda Johnson.

Onnie is preceded in death by her parents, Charles and Dillie Spearman; husband, LD Turner; son; LD Daniel Turner, Jr.; sisters, Zola Crawford and Donna Croskey; brothers, U.S., Delbert, Amos, and J.D.

Onnie is survived by daughters, Nancy (Kenny) Ashley and Kimberly Turner; brother, Ross Spearman; sister, Margie Enright; granddaughters, Shannon (Christopher) Hudman, Tisha (Dan) Dye, and Deanna Turner; grandsons, LD (Leeann) Turner III and Joseph (Maegan) Nieto; great-granddaughters, Jamie Moore and Katie (Isaiah) Johnson, Trinity Turner, and Enola Waelynne Turner; great-grandsons, T.J. Turner, Michael Moore, Bailey Muschweck, and Nolan Dye; great-great grandson, Damon Turner.

Funeral arrangements are under the direction of McRay Funeral Home. At the family's request, at this time, there will be no funeral or memorial service. The family would like to express their deepest gratitude to Andrea Roberts of Physician Housecalls and to the staff of LifeLine Home Health & Hospice of Chickasha."

Gregory Parr Oliver

Gregory Parr Oliver, 60, of Chickasha, Oklahoma, passed away on July 11, 2024. A celebration of his life will be held at 2:00 PM on Saturday, July 13, 2024, in the McRay Funeral Home Chapel. Pastor Tollie Bibb will officiate the service.

Greg was born on August 18, 1963, in Chickasha, Oklahoma, to John and Carol Oliver. He grew up surrounded by a loving family and a community that admired his many talents and kind spirit. Greg graduated from Midwest City High School, where he distinguished himself as a wrestling champion, showcasing not only his athletic abilities but also his determination and dedication. Upon graduation from high school he received a full scholarship to Columbia University. After completing his degree at Oklahoma State University, Greg pursued a variety of career opportunities, including a role as a math tutor where he shared his remarkable intellect with others. Despite facing the challenges of mental illness, Greg met each day with courage and a smile. His resilience and positive attitude were an inspiration to those around him. Greg had a profound love for music, dance and mathematics, finding joy and expression in these passions throughout his life.

He is preceded in death by his parents, John and Carol Oliver; his grandparents, Charles and Anna Oliver, and Elmer and Ellav Parr; as well as his cousins, Andrea West; Anna Marie Leslie and uncles Dale and Riley Parr.

Greg is survived by his aunt and uncle, Sheryl and Donald West; aunt Faye Parr George; cousins Kirk, Brad and Scott Parr, Alisa West, Olivia West Cahill; and Deenie, Robyn, Donny, Lindsey, and Scott Oliver. He will be remembered fondly by his family and friends for his bright spirit and enduring love for music, dance and wrestling.

Interment will follow the service in Fairlawn Cemetery, under the direction of McRay Funeral Home.

In lieu of flowers, the family requests that donations be made in Greg’s memory to a mental health charity of your choice, to honor his legacy of strength and compassion.

Rest in peace, Greg. You will be missed and remembered with love.

Holly Len Miller

Funeral service for Holly Len Jerman-Miller, 50, of Chickasha, will be held at 2:00pm on Wednesday, July 17, 2024 at Southern Oaks Church of Christ.

Holly was born December 23, 1973, in Mangum, Oklahoma to Jack Carol Jerman and Karen Jerman (McElroy). She passed away on July 8, 2024 in Chickasha, Oklahoma.

At age three Holly moved to Amber, Oklahoma where she and her family quickly became integrated into the community. She graduated from Amber-Pocasset High School in 1992 and continued her education at Oklahoma Christian University, graduating with a Bachelor's in Social Work in 1997. Holly also received Master's Degrees in Social Work and Public Health in the years following her graduation. Her love for people and drive to advocate for others inspired her careers in Social Work, Home Health, Hospice and most recently, Senior Living. Holly recently became the Executive Director of Sand Sage of the Highlands Assisted Living where she eagerly oversaw and created a safe and empowering environment for her residents and staff. She married Justin Miller in August of 2010 in Chickasha, Oklahoma. Holly’s proudest accomplishment was the family she created that day, welcoming two new sons into her heart. She was a loving, proud mother to five children: Tyler Miller, Tanner Wallace, Ryan Miller, Blair Wallace, and Hannah Miller. She was often found cheering on her children from the sidelines of sporting and school events or celebrating their accomplishments with friends and family.

Survivors include her husband Justin Miller; her children Tyler Miller, Tanner Wallace and wife Rachel, Ryan Miller, Blair Wallace, and Hannah Miller; her parents Jack and Karen Jerman; her brother Chad Jerman, his wife Tara, and their son Brock, and her brother Brian Jerman, his wife Kinzie, and their kids Russell, Easton, and Reese. Holly is also survived by a host of good friends and the community she built throughout her career.

She was preceded in death by her grandparents Phil and Louise Jerman and JV and Beatrice McElroy, along with her uncle James McElroy.

Services are under the direction of McRay Funeral home.

KELLEY GAIL ELSTON

11/21/60 – 6/27/24

Kelley Gail Elston entered this world on 21 November 1960 and departed it on 27 June 2024 after a short, but brave, battle with cancer.

Kelley was the daughter of Jerry Elston and Floye (Mitchell) Patton. She was born and raised in Chickasha, Oklahoma, and graduated from Chickasha High School in 1979. Kelley left Chickasha in the mid-80s and spent the next 40 years living in Texas, Washington State, then Nevada before returning to Chickasha in 2023. She enjoyed a long career in the transportation industry where she was recognized as an expert in her field. Kelley’s three cats, Leo, Lexi, and Lincoln, brought her great joy and received and gave unconditional love.

Kelley was preceded in death by her parents, Jerry and Floye, and will be dearly missed by those she leaves behind. She is survived by her sisters, Lynne (Mitch) Coppedge, Tamara Elston, and Dixie Elston of Chickasha and Christy (Rocky) Red Elk of Lawton. She loved and was loved by her four nieces, Erin (Russell) Thompson, Brittany Williams, Allison (Derek) Cofer, and Shelby (Zack) Graves. Her great niece, Kadence Thompson, and two great nephews, Cooper Cofer and Ellis Thompson, lit up her life. Kelley is also survived by her stepmother, Mary (Flo) Elston of Perkins and her stepsister, Claudette (Ron) Hixon of Cushing.

Thank you to McRay Funeral Home for taking Kelley for us. She did not wish to have a formal funeral service. She will be cremated and laid to rest next to her mother at Fairlawn Cemetery at a future date. Rest in peace, dear Kelley; until we meet again.

Rudy Lee Cole

Graveside funeral service for Rudy Cole, 79, of Amber, OK will be held at 10:00am, Friday, June 14, 2024 at Fairlawn Cemetery.  Pastor Barry Clagg will officiate.  Viewing will be on Thursday, June 13, 2024 from 9:00am until 7:00pm at McRay Funeral Home.

Rudy Lee Cole was born the son of L.C. and Janie (Jones) Cole on May 16, 1945, in Oklahoma City, OK. He passed away on June 9, 2024, in Collinsville, OK.

Rudy grew up in El Dorado, OK, where he lived and farmed for many years. While tending to the land, he also dedicated his time to work at a copper mine. In the journey of life, he married Nancy Cato while residing in El Dorado. In 1989, they embarked on a new chapter, relocating to rural Amber. There, Rudy immersed himself in farming once again before transitioning to work in highway construction, operating heavy machinery with skill and dedication.

Rudy was preceded in death by his beloved parents, L.C. and Janie Cole; his cherished wife, Nancy Cole; and his dear daughter, Christie Cole.

He is lovingly remembered by his son, Clint Cole; grandsons, Colby Cole and wife Andrea, Chandler Cole, Cayden Cole, and Clayton Cole; along with five great-grandchildren, who will continue to carry forth his legacy of love, strength, and resilience.

In the tapestry of Rudy's life, he wove threads of hard work, dedication, and unwavering love for his family. He will be deeply missed and forever remembered by all who had the privilege of knowing him. May his soul find eternal peace, and may his memory be a source of comfort and solace to those who mourn his passing.

Scharleene O. Bowen

Funeral service for Scharleene Bowen will be held at 10:00am, Friday, May 31, 2024 in the McRay Funeral Home Chapel.  Viewing will be Wednesday and Thursday from 9:00am – 5:00pm.

Scharleene O. Bowen, beloved mother, grandmother, great-grandmother, and great-great grandmother, peacefully passed away on May 25, 2024, at the age of 94. She was born on November 4, 1929, in Verden, OK, and was the daughter of the late Elmer and Ruby Rhodes.

Scharleene married Elmer Bowen on January 23, 1945. He was the love of her life and they had four children Frances Marie, Earleene Wynell, Delmar Ray, and Leanna Faye. Together Scharleene and Elmer raised their family in Alex, later moving to Chickasha, where Elmer passed away in 1990.

Scharleene lived a fulfilling life in Chickasha, OK, where she resided for many years; one of her greatest accomplishments was her long career of 25 years at Wal Mart where she was department manager of domestics. She had a deep love for her family, especially her grandkids, great-grandkids, and great- great - grandkids. Their laughter and joy brought immense happiness to her life.

In addition to her children, Scharleene was blessed with ten grandchildren: Dwayne, Robin, Pam, Carol, Kendall, Matthew, Jefferey, Kyle, Robert, and Chris. Each grandchild held a special place in her heart and brought immeasurable joy into her life.

Scharleene will always be remembered for her warm smile, her love for her family, and her fondness for indulging in Coke floats. Her legacy of love and devotion will live on in the hearts of all those whose lives she touched. She will be dearly missed and forever remembered. May her gentle soul rest in eternal peace.

Scharleene Bowen was preceded in death by her parents Ruby D. and Elmer Charles Rhodes; her sister Margaret Gordon, her sister baby Beatrice Rhodes, her brother baby John Rhodes, her husband Elmer James Bowen, her daughter Earleene Wynell Barber, granddaughter Pamela Barber and grandson Kendall Barber.

Her surviving family includes her brother Delbert Rhodes of Shawnee Oklahoma; daughter and son-in-law Frances and David Eblen of Chickasha Oklahoma; her son and daughter-in-law Delmar and Marilu Bowen of Ninnekah Oklahoma; her daughter and son-in-law Leanna and Bruce Trimble of Tuttle, Oklahoma; her grandchildren Robin McWilliams; Dewayne Eblen; Carol & Cody Harris; Mattew Bowen; Jeffery Bowen; Timothy & Megan Bowen; Tiffany & Scott Wright; Robert & Angela Trimble; Christopher Trimble; her great-grandchildren Earl, Karra,  Jacob, Shelby, Shyra, Kelly, Holly, Hayden, Brianna, Rhinna, Zander, Dutton, Rawlings, Harleigh, Scout, Kaylee, and Brianna.  Her great-great-grandchildren Eastin, Paislee, Gracelynn, Jacob Jr., Wyllow, Trevon; along with many friends and loved ones.

Interment will be in the Fairlawn Cemetery.  Services are under the direction of McRay Funeral Home.

Jason Lee Cole

Jason Lee Cole was born on January 31st, 1970 in Oklahoma City, Oklahoma to Wilber (Dub) Cole and Patricia Carol Cole.  He passed from this life on May 6th, 2024 in Oklahoma City, Oklahoma at the age of 54 years old.

At a young age, Jason moved to Tuttle, Oklahoma with his family where he attended school in the Tuttle school district.  He graduated from Tuttle High School in 1989.  Shortly after graduating, he joined the United States Army in 1990.  He became a part of the 9th Regiment Commandos where he was a SAW Gunner.  He achieved the rank of E4 Specialist.  His enlistment ended in 1993.  Jason went on and joined the United States Reserves in 1994 and served four years.  He later served two more years in the Army National Guard with the 45th Artillery Regiment. 

Before the end of his military career he was employed by Walmart here in Chickasha, Oklahoma where he met the love of his life, Toni M. Turner.  Jason married Toni on June 3rd, 2000.  They lived in Chickasha for a short time and then moved to Wichita Falls, Texas.  While in Texas, Jason was employed by a Private Military Company where he was stationed at Sheppard Air Force Base as a Chief Information Officer.  On April 6th, 2008 Jason and Toni welcomed their first child, Rylan Alva Turner-Cole to the family.  Jason continued to work at Sheppard Air Force Base until 2011, and at that time he moved his family back to Chickasha, Oklahoma.  Shortly after returning to Chickasha, he was employed by the Chickasaw Nation Protective Services as a Security Supervisor.  On February 12th, 2014 Jason and Toni welcomed their second child, Skyler Faith Turner-Cole, to the family.  He continued working as a Security Supervisor until he had to retire due to a serious lung disease in 2021.

Those that knew Jason, knew that his family was his pride and joy.  He dedicated himself to their happiness and well-being.  He showed unconditional love and strength to them each and every day.  In Jason’s spare time he enjoyed playing computer games and watching sci fi movies.  Jason was taken from us far too soon.  He will be missed deeply by anyone who had the pleasure of knowing him.  He was truly one of a kind. 

Jason is survived by his loving wife Toni M. Turner-Cole, and two wonderful children Rylan Alva Turner-Cole and Skyler Faith Turner-Cole,  his father Dub Cole and mother Patricia Cole, two sisters Sherri Blankenship and Brenda Salgado, one brother in law Eric Salgado, niece Jessica Blankenship, plus many extended family and friends.

Visitation will be held at McRay Funeral Home, 110 S 8th Street, Chickasha, Oklahoma on Thursday May 9th and Friday May 10th.  There will be a Celebration of Life held in his honor at Bible Baptist Church, 226 S. 29th Street, Chickasha, Oklahoma, on Saturday May 11, 2024 at 10:30 am. 

Dorothy Swick Brandt

Funeral Mass for Dorothy Swick Brandt, 93, of Chickasha, Oklahoma will be held at 10:00am, Thursday, May 9, 2024 at the Holy Name of Jesus Catholic Church in Chickasha, Oklahoma.  Father Mike Wheelahan will officiate.  There will also be a come and go celebration of her life at St. Joseph’s Family Center next to the church after the mass until approximately 1:00pm.   Interment will be at 2:00pm Thursday in the Resurrection Memorial Cemetery in Oklahoma City, Oklahoma.

Dorothy Swick Brandt was born on December 11, 1930 to Ed and Betty Swick in Oklahoma City, Oklahoma.  She died on May 5, 2024 in Chickasha, Oklahoma.

Dorothy attended Corpus Christi Catholic school from first grade through ninth grade, then attended and graduated from Northeast High School.  She married Charlie Brandt on January 27, 1951 in Oklahoma City.  They moved their family to Chickasha in 1960 where Charlie started Brandt Fleet Distributors.  Dorothy was one of the last of the great generations of stay-at-home moms.  She was a great cook, self-taught seamstress and a blessing to her family.  Her wants in life were simple:  to be a good wife to a good man and raise their children to be responsible adults—mission accomplished.  She was a long-standing member of Holy Name Catholic Church in Chickasha.  Later in life she worked in the office at Brandt’s Hardware.  She spent her life putting others before herself.  She was selfless to a fault at times.  In her golden years she loved going on vacations with her family and grandkids to Colorado.  Her Rocky Mountain highs consisted of coffee in the mornings and wine in the evening.  She just couldn’t get enough of the mountains.

She was preceded in death by her husband Charlie Brandt; her parents Ed and Betty Swick; brother Gene Swick; Charlie’s parents Leo and Ruth Brandt; brother-in-law LeRoy Brandt; sister-in-law Barbara Brandt Schwartz; brother-in-law Larry Joe Brandt; sister-in-law Linda Brandt Twyman; and sister-in-law and brother-in-law Mildred and Jack Nashert.

Dorothy is survived by her brother Jerry Swick and wife Kathleen; sister-in-law Linda Brandt; brother-in-law George Twyman; daughter Debbie and husband David Courtney; son Steve Brandt and wife Lori; son Tony Brandt and wife Pam; six grandchildren: Charlie Courtney, Andrew Courtney, Amber Brandt Ballard, Alicia Brandt Jameson, Deven Brandt McMahan and Brooke Brandt along with five great-grandchildren.

The family would like to offer special thanks to Brookdale Senior Living Center and their staff who treated Mom with such kindness for the last several months.

Dorothy’s favorite charities included the Holy Name Catholic Church Building Fund; St. Jude’s Hospital; Life Choices of Chickasha and Friends Fur Change in Chickasha.

Services are under the direction of McRay Funeral Home.

Dennis Allen Beaty

Funeral service for Dennis Allen Beaty, 73, of Chickasha, Oklahoma will be held at 1:30pm on Wednesday, May 8, 2024 at First Baptist Church in Chickasha.

Dennis Allen Beaty was born on September 14, 1950.  He is the middle child of Orval Allen and Mary Delores Beaty. Dennis was born in Chickasha, Oklahoma and graduated from Chickasha High School in 1968.  He married Leona Barnhill and had two children, Kimberly Dawn and Bryce Allen.  In 1980, he married the love of his life, Merita Faye Smith and together they had Whitney Dawn.  They were happily married for 44 years.  Dennis worked at Maremont Manufacturing followed by several years at Ben Milam Heat and Air.  He owned and operated Dennis Beaty Heat and Air Conditioning until 1999, when Dennis began working for the Oklahoma Turnpike Authority and retired from there in 2017. Dennis was a member of First Baptist Church. He also served at New Life Christian Church; both in Chickasha.  He and Merita enjoyed traveling together with their family.   Dennis loved to fish and garden.  He grew beautiful flower beds and tomatoes to share with friends and took a lot of pride in keeping an immaculate yard. Working with his hands is how Dennis blessed others.  He always had a project in the works. He was often called upon to use his unique ability to fix, repair and build any and everything; including overseeing the construction of the New Life Christian Church Activity Center. His attention to detail was unmatched. 

A few words used to describe Dennis are hardworking, kind, dependable, faithful, gentle and a man of great integrity.  He adored Merita and was so very proud of his children and grandchildren.  Dennis was diagnosed with ALS in July 2022 and faced this diagnosis with a quiet and enduring strength. Dennis finished his race on earth the morning of Saturday May 4th, 2024.

Dennis was preceded in death by his parents Dee and Delores Beaty and sister Dorothy Trujillio and brother-in-law, Ted Williams.

Dennis is survived by his wife Merita, daughter Kim McKee and husband Rodney of Blanchard, son Bryce Beaty and wife Julie of Anadarko and daughter Whitney Molder of Chickasha.  Grandchildren, Kassity Yarbarough and husband Tucker, Brett Ulin, Piper and Blade Beaty and Price, Maggie Beth and Nellie Molder.  Sister, Debbie Bunnell of Cement. Sister-in-law, Abby LaForge and husband Steve of Chickasha and Tammie Williams of Stillwater, and many beloved nieces and nephews.  

It was Dennis' request that in lieu of flowers, a donation be made to "Chickasha ALS."  Deposits can be made directly at First National Bank and Trust of Chickasha; attention Beverly White. 

Cremation and services are under the direction of McRay Funeral Home.

David Crockett Cowan, Jr.

Funeral service for David Crockett Cowan, Jr., age 84, of Verden, Oklahoma will be held at 2:00pm, Monday, April 22, 2024 in the McRay Funeral Home Chapel.  Pastor Blake Taylor will officiate.

Mr. Cowan was born to David C. Cowan, Sr. and Marie Booker Cowan on March 17, 1940 in Altus, Oklahoma.  Being born on St. Patrick’s Day gained him the nickname “Pat.”  He grew up in Chickasha, Oklahoma where, as a teenager, he worked delivering the local newspaper and mowing yards.  He attended all of his elementary and high school years in Chickasha, Oklahoma.  He was a member of the Order of DeMolay where he gained character and leadership development.  Pat was also a member of the Boy Scouts of America where he rose to the esteemed rank of Eagle Scout.

David graduated high school in 1958.  He was led towards continuing his education in helping the handicapped and those with special needs.  This heartfelt calling came from having seven of his thirteen aunts and uncles that were hearing and speech impaired.

In May of 1962, David married Margaret Ann Ball of Verden, Oklahoma.  From this union he fathered four children, Anna Marie, Earl David, Eric Winston and Amy Margaret.

In 1963, David earned a Bachelor’s Degree in education from Oklahoma State University and later completed his Master’s Degree in education.  He spent several years in the classroom with special needs children in Oklahoma and New Mexico.  In 1969, David became the Director and Administrator of Oklahoma Regional Educational Service Center providing teaching and learning materials for special education teachers and students.  After retirement, he became an adjunct professor of education at USAO.  Mr. Cowan spent over thirty years in education fulfilling his special calling.

While retired, David enjoyed gardening, genealogy, and bird watching.  Being a devout Christian, his true passion was making Christmas a magical time for everyone.

David was preceded in death by his parents David Sr. and Marie Cowan; sister Jean Anne McKee-Bassett and brother James Michael Cowan.

Survivors include his wife Margaret Ann Cowan of the home in Verden, Oklahoma; daughter and husband Anna Marie and Mark Thornton of Gary, Texas; son Eddie Cowan of Verden, Oklahoma; son and wife Eric and Sarena Cowan of Mangum, Oklahoma; and daughter and husband Amy Cowan and Roman Pena of Verden, Oklahoma.  David left thirteen grandchildren; a host of foster grandchildren and nineteen great-grandchildren to continue his legacy.  He is also survived by his sister Linda Cowan of Oklahoma City, Oklahoma; sister and husband Sandra and David Harriman of Norman, Oklahoma; sister-in-law Loretta Cowan of Tonganoxie, Kansas and numerous nieces and nephews.

Pallbearers include grandsons Michael Rettig, Robert Cowan, Roman Pena, Luke Thornton, Jake Cowan and Cheyenne Pena.  Honorary pallbearers include Brian Landreneaux, Ethan Legaly, Casey Jackson, Kaleb Murray, Lance Harris and Lonnie Marzette.

The family will greet friends from 4:00 – 6:00pm, Sunday, April 21, 2024 at McRay Funeral Home.

Interment will be in the Fairlawn Cemetery. Following the interment there will be a gathering for family and friends at the Verden Community Building.

Services are under the direction of McRay Funeral Home.

Anna Belle Hair

Funeral services for Anna Belle Hair will be Monday, April 15, 2024 at 2:00pm at Southern Oaks Church of Christ.  Burial will be at Westview Cemetery in Rush Springs under the direction of McRay Funeral Home.

Anna Belle Hair was born October 9, 1933 in Hobart, Oklahoma. She left this world at the age of 90 on April 12, 2024 in Chickasha, Oklahoma.

Anna Belle met Jerry Hair when they were both young and they married at the age of 14 in 1948.  They moved to California to work and have a family.  They moved back to Oklahoma in 1960 to start the Carter and Hair Propane Company.  Anna Belle ran the office, was a skilled seamstress and a loving mother and grandmother.  She was a faithful Christian woman, loved by all who had the privilege of meeting her.

Anna Belle was preceded in death by her parents Alma and Alton Carter; her brother Houston; her sister Lucille; her husband Jerry; her daughter Sheila; her two sons Randy and Kevin; and two great-grandsons Sean and Kyle.

Her surviving family includes her daughter and son-in-law Cheryl and Kenneth Mantooth of Tipton, Oklahoma; her daughters-in-law Kelly Hair, Kay Hair and Faye Moretz; her grandchildren Delana and Jerry Johnson; Shawn and Leigh Love; Shanna Love; Tisha and Mark Zitzow; Jerry and Whitney Hair; Isaac Hair; Shauna and Jon Ross; Kyle and Kassie Hair; Wade and Krystle Hair; her great-grandchildren Brian, Lauren, Kelsey, Nick, Jayci, Tucker, Avery, McKinley, Noah, Aubrey Jo, Joslyn and Gavin; along with many friends and loved ones.

Johnny Randell Dorman

Johnny Randell Dorman, a beloved husband, father, grandfather, and dedicated employee of AT&T for almost four decades, passed away on April 10th, 2024 at his home in Chickasha, Oklahoma. He was born in Marlow on February 1st, 1950 to loving parents, John and Zell Dorman, who instilled in him the values of hard work and family devotion. 

He married the love of his life, Pam, on April 1st, 1969.  Their love story began when they eloped on spring break from college without telling anyone but their parents - a fitting start to a lifetime filled with laughter and adventure. They recently celebrated an incredible milestone of 55 years together; their bond serving as an inspiration to all who knew them.

Randy was a man whose heart overflowed with love for his family. He leaves behind his devoted wife Pam; daughter Brandy Canon and her husband Chad; son David Dorman and his wife Marisa, son Derek Dorman, and numerous grandchildren Dylan, Gracie, Avery, Presley, Tim, Daniel & Kyla. His pride and joy were evident whenever he spoke about them or spent time with them. He is also survived by sisters Debbie Garner and Carrie Gibson who meant the world to him.

Throughout his life Randy had an unwavering dedication to providing for his loved ones which led him to spend almost forty years at AT&T where he formed lifelong friendships while also becoming known as a respected colleague. His passion extended beyond the workplace as he found joy in collecting telephone memorabilia and cars - hobbies that brought him immense happiness throughout the years.

Those who knew Randy will remember him not only for these passions but also for his kind-hearted nature and willingness to lend a helping hand whenever needed. The impact he made on those around him is immeasurable - leaving behind cherished memories that will be held close by all who had the privilege of knowing this remarkable man.

His celebration of life with be held at Bible Baptist Church, Chickasha, OK at 1:30pm Saturday, April 13th. As we mourn the loss of Johnny Randell Dorman from our lives here on earth we find solace in knowing that he has left behind an enduring legacy through both his family's love as well as the countless lives he touched during his time here. May we carry forward the lessons learned from such an extraordinary individual - may they serve as a reminder of what it means to live life fully immersed in love.

Burial will be in Rose Hill Cemetery.  Services are with McRay Funeral Home.

Maxine Pitts Dyer

Funeral service for Maxine Pitts Dyer, 92, of Chickasha, OK will be held at 1:00pm, Friday, April 12, 2024 at First Christian Church in Chickasha.  Rev. Michael Oberlender will officiate.

Maxine Pitts Dyer was born in Anadarko, OK on April 18, 1931.  Her parents were Dank and Marie (Biggerstaff) Pitts. She was a sister to Virginia Henricks, Billie Reed and Betty (West) Kirkland.

She married Elga (Doe) Alexander in 1949 and they had four children: Alan, Richard, Gina and Kent.  When Maxine was a young lady she had many jobs.  She picked cotton, was a real estate broker, hairdresser and a nurse. 

Maxine met the love of her life, Jimmy G. Dyer, and they were wed on December 26, 1983. They started a business driving a semi, even Maxine! They also had Maxine’s Springcrest Draperies.  If you knew Maxine, you knew she LOVED her OU Sooner football players.  The first OU football game she attended was in 1958. She was the BEST cook, quilt maker, gardener and chicken lover.  Maxine was an active member and Past-President of Altrusa, active in the Disciples Women Fellowship, an Elder of the First Christian church and in charge of all the dinners at the church. She was also a founding volunteer with the Festival of Light.

Maxine was preceded in death by her parents, two sisters, two step-sons and one great-great grandchild.

Survivors include her husband Jimmy of the home, son Alan and Charlotte Alexander, son Richard Alexander, daughter Gina and Glenn Snedeker, son Kent Alexander, six grandchildren, nine great-grandchildren, one great-great grandchild and many extended family and friends. 

Burial will be in the Rose Hill Cemetery under the direction of McRay Funeral Home.

Darrell Wayne Hickman

Funeral service for Darrell Wayne Hickman, 65, of Chickasha, Oklahoma, will be held at 10:00am, Thursday, April 4, 2024 at the Ninnekah Church of Christ, 608 Old Hwy 277, Ninnekah, Oklahoma 73067.  Thomas Wood will officiate.

Darrell and his wife Diane were married on May 1, 1976 in Bradley, Oklahoma.  They raised three boys–Bruce, Darrell Gene and Lee.  Darrell was a hard worker and a great provider for his family.  He was the owner and operator of D.H. Dozer out of Chickasha, Oklahoma.  When he wasn’t working he enjoyed fixing up older muscle cars and riding his Harley with his boys along side, or camping at the lake with his family.  He got joy out of pulling the grandkids on the tube just to watch them fly off.  If you caught him at home he was rocking on the back porch or working in his shop.  He liked going to car shows and won 1st place many times.  He was a very simple man that would do anything for his family and friends.  He was definitely a man of his word who loved his wife and family–and that dog, GiGi. 

Darrell was preceded in death by his father L.D. Hickman; mother Anna Doloris Hickman; son Darrell Gene Hickman; granddaughter Heather Marie Hickman; and three brothers Danny Hickman, Randy Hickman and Terry Hickman.

Darrell is survived by his wife of 48 years Diane Hickman; two sons Bruce Anderson and Lee Hickman; three sisters, Sharren Holland, Lorri Clark and Brenda Hassler; brother Jerry Hickman; seven grandkids Ashlyn Anderson, Chance Anderson, Shayla Anderson, Heath Hickman, Tanner Hickman, Gentri Hickman and Dani Hickman; nine great-grandkids; a baby girl on the way; and his beloved sidekick GiGi–his dog.

Pall bearers are Chance Anderson, Heath Hickman, Tanner Hickman, Sean Day, Austin Unruh and Lee Butcher.

Viewing will be Tuesday and Wednesday from 9:00am to 7:00pm at McRay Funeral Home, 110 S. 8th Street, Chickasha, Oklahoma.

Interment will be in the Greenhill Cemetery on 100th Street, Lindsay, Oklahoma.

Marieta Frances Raasch

Funeral service for Marieta Frances Raasch, 80, of Cement, OK will be held at 1:00pm, Saturday, March 9, 2024 at Southern Oaks Church of Christ in Chickasha, OK.  Nathan Talbert will officiate and Scott Smiley will assist.

Marieta Frances (Rogers) Raasch was born to D M “Red” and Velma Rogers on July 6, 1943. She passed peacefully from this world on March 4, 2024, in Oklahoma City.

She married her grade school sweetheart, Gary Raasch, on Nov 14, 1960. They were blessed with 63 ½ years of marriage and built a legacy of love on their farm in Cement, Oklahoma. Marieta was a homemaker for many years while her children were young, and they ran a Dairy Farm. She worked in banking at The Bank of Cement and Chickasha Bank & Trust, followed by being a warranty clerk at Lacefield’s Chevrolet in Chickasha and later at Lawson’s Auto Mall in Lawton, where she retired in 2008.

She loved working outside in her flower beds, the garden, and being with her family. She was preceded in death by her parents, brother Jack Rutledge, sister Reba Watkins, and grandson Evan Raasch.

She is survived by her loving husband Gary, sister Joyce Boyd, son David Raasch and wife Kim, daughter Robin Smiley and husband Scott, grandsons Tyson, Todd, Riley, and granddaughters Morgan and Taylor. She has 9 great-grandchildren and 1 Great-Great Grandson to be seen in April, and numerous nieces and nephews.

Interment will be in the Cement Cemetery in Cement, Oklahoma.  Services are under the direction of McRay Funeral Home.

Michael Lee Austin

A graveside service for Michael “Mike” Lee Austin, 67, of Chickasha, OK will be held Wednesday, March 6, 2024, at 11:00 A.M. at Fairlawn Cemetery with Kim Hays officiating.

Mike was born June 25, 1956, in Anadarko, OK, to Willard “Bill” and Carmen Austin. He passed from this life on March 3, 2024.

Mike grew up in Chickasha and graduated from Chickasha High School in 1974. He owned and ran Austin Construction for over 30 years.

Mike met the love of his life, Julie Black Christian, and they married December 9, 1983. They spent 40 wonderful years together. They had three daughters and one granddaughter. Mike loved his family fiercely.

Mike was preceded in death by both parents, brother Donnie Austin, sister-in-law Genny Christian, and mother-in-law Corene Black.

Loved ones left to remember are wife Julie Austin of the home; daughters Marci Reed and husband Adam of Chickasha, Lisa Austin of Chickasha, Madison Austin of Chickasha, granddaughter Savvy Austin, sister Rhonda Garza and husband Lorenzo of Chickasha, sister Cheryl Austin of Chickasha, brother-in-law Tim Christian and wife Susan, sister-in-law Betty Austin, along with many nieces and nephews.

Services are with McRay Funeral Home.

James Leonard Garvin

September 23, 1934 — February 24, 2024

James L. Garvin of Chickasha, Oklahoma, was born James Leonard Garvin to Jesse Leonard Garvin and Mattie Lou Howard on September 23, 1934, in Healdton, Oklahoma. He was raised in Cyril and Cement, Oklahoma, meeting and soon marrying the love of his life, Patsy Laverne Morris, on November 17, 1948. They moved to Guthrie, Oklahoma before settling in Oklahoma City where they raised three children, J. Duane, V. Diane, and Shiela K. Garvin.

James had worked around cars since the age of 16, first as a service station attendant, then as a mechanic and later as service manager for Eskridge Oldsmobile. In 1978, they moved to Oak Harbor, Whidbey Island, Washington, where they lived and worked for 22 years. James went into the salmon fishing business, first with his brother-in-law, then later for another individual after receiving his pilot’s license. He survived the sinking of that boat on its maiden voyage to Alaska, but continued later as a pilot and mechanic on a larger tender called the Stormbird. Health issues led him to return to work as an automobile dealership service manager until his retirement. In 2000, they moved back to Oklahoma to be closer to family and settled in Chickasha.

James was preceded in death by his wife Pat, and his daughters, Shiela and Diane. He is survived by his son Duane, and wife Carol, grandchildren James and Mike McCall, Laura Martell Connelly and husband Tom, Allison Tyson and husband Clinton, and Nicole Garvin.

Cremation arrangements are with McRay Funeral Home.

Jeffrey Wade Morris

A memorial service for Jeffrey Wade Morris, age 64, of Anadarko will be held on Monday, February 26, 2024 at 10:00 am, at the Gospel Lighthouse Church in Anadarko.

Wade Morris was born on October 1, 1959 to Hershal Melvin Morris and Donna Kay (Woodson) Morris.  He departed this life and went to meet his Lord and Savior Jesus Christ on February 21, 2024.  He was in the comfort of his own home surrounded by his family.  Wade and his wife Jessica (Ward) Morris have been together for 23 wonderful years and from their union they shared one son, Julian Elijah Ward.

Wade was born and raised in Anadarko for most of his life.  He lived in Texas for a short time working as a finish carpenter in the Fort Worth/Arlington area.  Wade was known to be a good cook and from a very early age he worked in restaurants and cafes, making many friends along the way.  He was best known for working at Maxine’s Steak House with John Frankie, the old Tasty Freeze, Mimi’s Café with Brenda Smith, and Trader’s Steakhouse with Jim “Punkin” Rogers.  He often sang at Trader’s Steakhouse where many were surprised to learn of his singing ability.

Wade was not ashamed and often testified of his battle with drugs and alcohol during his life.  In fact, it became his passion to share his story with others for the glory of God and testament to salvation in Jesus Christ.  Wade experienced several health issues and in 2016 after a lengthy hospital stay the Lord restored his health and he began to serve Jesus in an even greater way.  He started a lawnmowing service and felt the Lord led him to people needing yardwork.  But his heart was set on telling them about Jesus and most often the work blossomed into a friendship.

Wade absolutely loved Jesus Christ and believed in doing good unto others.  He started a ministry to feed the homeless and began taking donations of clothes and household goods to get them to people in need.  His mind stayed on helping others and showing the love of God through everything he did.  He truly believed the Lord saved his life so that he could be a servant to God by being a servant to people.  Often times, he would have to be in the hospital and used every opportunity to tell others about Jesus.  He was best known by hospital staff as the guy who walked the halls, touching each patient’s door and praying over them as he walked.  Wade made a friend everywhere he went and will surely be missed.

Wade was preceded in death by his mother and father, brother baby George Morris, sister Kelly Lucinda (Morris) Kimbell, and Shannon Kay (Morris) Lewis, and nephew John Edward Petross.

He was survived by his wife Jessica Morris, son Julian Ward and wife Elizabeth Ward of Anadarko, OK; stepson Joel Toles Jr. of Anadarko, OK; step-daughter Alexis Toles of Chickasha, OK; an adopted son James Haunpo III, of Anadarko, OK; one sister Chiquita Petross of Fort Cobb, OK; one brother John Morris and wife Brenda Morris of Cushing, OK; nephews Jimmy Kimbell, of Anadarko, OK; Justin Petross and wife Candra Petross of Verden, OK; Jeremy Hollowell and wife Amy Hollowell of Elgin, OK; Jesse Petross of Fort Cobb, OK; Michael Morris of Guthrie, OK; and Steven Lewis of Clifton, TX; and nieces Jamie Kimbell of Oklahoma City, OK; Stephanie Burford of Anadarko, OK; Amanda Cain of Anadarko, OK; Racheal Carr of Anadarko, OK; Nicole Morris of Georgia; Jennifer Snyder and husband Joe of Riley, OK; Tabitha Lewis of Hillsboro, TX; and Dayanera Lewis of Cleveland, TX.

Services are under the direction of McRay Funeral Home.

Wanda Lea (Crumm) Ellis

Wanda Lea (Crumm) Ellis, age 93, of Norge, Oklahoma was born the youngest child of Jackson R. and Iris Irene (Helton) Crumm on October 17, 1930 in Minco, Oklahoma. She died on February 20th 2024 at her home in Norge. Private burial was in the Pioneer Cemetery. Wanda moved to Norge when she was 13 years old. She married Gene Ellis on November 26, 1945-a union that lasted over 70 years until his death in 2015. She resided most of her 93 years in the Norge area.

Wanda spent most of her younger years raising her children, and working from home as the bookkeeper for her husband's construction businesses. When her youngest child was in high school, she entered the workforce at the request of her brother-in-law, Tuffy, who asked her to help with the Southgate Convenience store until they could close it down. Working out in public agreed with her social tendencies, and she then went to work as a checker for Lightner's Food Store and began selling Avon. Her lifelong love of numbers and mathematics was put to good use helping numerous young store workers with their school math homework. She excelled as an Avon lady, and was the recipient of the prestigious 'President's Award' for numerous years. Wanda was a lover of adventure. In her younger years she loved riding horseback, running barrels, and even attempted goat roping. She loved flying, whether it be a helicopter or an open 2 seater plane. She was even convinced at one point to ride a Segway. Wanda enjoyed camping, gardening and anything she could do while being outside. After retirement, she became a cheerful adult sponsor for Girl Scout camping trips. Her life positively impacted generations of young people.

Wanda is survived by five children; daughter Patricia & husband Jerry Wright of Oklahoma City, OK; son Darrell Ellis of Granite, OK; son Randy & wife Deanna Ellis of Norge; daughter Wanda & husband John Lopez of Norge and daughter Winona Simmons of Cement, OK. Nine grandchildren: Timothy and Sheila Wright of Laurel, Maryland, Curtis and Kelly Rodgers of Blanchard, OK, Barbie and Corbitt Richards of Chickasha, Clint and Crystal Ellis of Alex, OK, Jamie and Eric Wells of Oklahoma City, OK, Chris Simmons of Ninnekah, OK, Sherrie and Jay Evans of Cement, OK, Juanita and Dale Goss of Chickasha, OK and Alicia and Adrian Little of Oklahoma City, OK, as well as 20 great and 15 great-great grandchildren. Wanda is also survived by three sisters-in-law Marcketa Godbehere, of Exeter, CA, Nellie Schiffman, of Chickasha, OK, Patsy Neumann and 1 brother-in-law, Bobby Ellis of  Chickasha, OK. and her special lifelong friends, Tommy and Gladys Pearcy. 

Wanda was preceded in death by her husband, Marvin Eugene Ellis, one infant son, William David Ellis, her parents, JR and Iris Crumm, all of her siblings, Riley Crumm, Frank Crumm, Ora Hand, Bertha McKee, Nora Graham, Wilda Self, Lela Balke, Sam Crumm, Leslie Crumm and Richard Crumm. As well as one son-in-law, H. Darrell Simmons and one great grand son Timothy Wright.

A memorial service will be held on Saturday, February 24th at 2:00 PM. at Trinity Baptist Church; 428 East Almar Chickasha, OK 73018. In lieu of flowers, the family asks that donations be made to the Pioneer Cemetery Fund, at Cox Feed Store, 278 Center Avenue, Chickasha, OK 73018.

Ila May Watson

Memorial service for Ila Watson will be held at 11:00am, Saturday, February 17, 2024 at Epworth United Methodist Church.

Ila Watson went to Heaven on February 3, 2024, after a valiant battle with breast cancer. She was at home with her family. She was 82.

Ila May (Roberts) Watson was born May 24, 1941, in Fay, Oklahoma. She was the third child of Leroy and Pearl (Bartell) Roberts.

Ila graduated from Fay High School and married Rev. Charles Watson in 1959. Ila and Charles had 3 sons: Mark, Chris, and David.

A lifelong artist, Ila received formal training in her 30s. She was quite the prolific artist, winning many awards and honors. Some highlights of her career were winning the Dewey County Phonebook Cover and displaying in the Oklahoma Capitol.

Ila dedicated herself to bringing Art to the community where she lived. She particularly focused on projects that focused on children.

Ila is survived by her 3 sons and their families (7 Grandchildren and several Great-Grandchildren).

The family asked that in lieu of flowers, donations be made to the Chickasha Area Arts Council (CAAC).

Marilyn Marie Darnell

Funeral service for Marilyn Marie Darnell, age 85 of Chickasha, will be held at 10am, Wednesday, January 31, 2024, at the College Heights Baptist Church.  Dr. Bryan Haynes will officiate.

Marilyn was born in Naples, Oklahoma, on December 1, 1938, to Elmer and Mary Barrett.  She died on January 25, 2024, at her home in Chickasha.

Marilyn married Albert Elmer Darnell at the College Heights Baptist Church on June 14, 1958.  She was a charter member of College Heights having come from Michigan Avenue as a teenager.  As a charter member, she served in many capacities including teaching second-grade Sunday School for decades and cooking at Falls Creek for 50 years.  She had a passion for kids and feeding people with her home cooking.

Marilyn was a 1957 graduate of Chickasha High School, a 1961 graduate of Oklahoma College for Women (USAO) and a 1974 graduate of Southwestern Oklahoma State University.

She taught kindergarten for a total of 38 years: Four years were at a private kindergarten at College Heights and 34 years were at Chickasha Public Schools.  All 34 years at Chickasha were at Southwest Elementary having had morning and afternoon classes resulting in teaching thousands of students.

Marilyn is preceded in death by her parents, siblings J. M. Barrett, Larry Barrett and infant brother Elmer Barrett, Jr., son-in-law Gary Ledbetter and her husband of 63 years, Albert Darnell.

Marilyn is survived by daughter, Mary-Lynn Ledbetter, sons James Edward Darnell (Becky) and Michael Darnell (Miche’).  She is also survived by grandchildren Cari Magee (Matt), Michael Ledbetter, Sarah Winter (Ethan), Leah Rue (Michael), Cooper Darnell and Kennedy Darnell.  She is also survived by great-grandchildren Velvet Magee, Ivy Winter and Ellie Winter.  She is also survived by sisters, Wanda McMasters and Sue Alford, and a host of extended family and friends.

A very special thank you to Lifeline Home Health and Central Oklahoma Home Health for their loving care.  Memorial contributions may be made to College Heights Baptist Church designated Children’s Ministry and Youth Falls Creek.

Viewing will be Monday and Tuesday from 9am to 7pm. Burial will be in Fairlawn Cemetery.  Services are under the direction of McRay Funeral Home.

Stuart Meltzer

Funeral service for Stuart Meltzer, age 83 of Chickasha, will be held at 2:00pm on Thursday, January 25, 2024, at the USAO Alumni Chapel in Chickasha.

Stuart Meltzer was born on June 27, 1940 in the Bronx, New York. He died on January 19, 2024 in Chickasha, Oklahoma.

Stuart graduated from Hunter College in 1960 with a B.A. in foreign languages.  He earned an M.A. in foreign languages and literature from the University of North Carolina, Chapel Hill in 1964.  He did further study at UNC and the University of Wyoming.  He began teaching at the Oklahoma College of Liberal Arts (now USAO) in 1968 where he taught until his retirement in 2010.  Throughout his career, he influenced countless students. Stuart was a dedicated Republican and served as a 4th District Republican Chairman from 1984-1996.  He was also active in the Chickasha Community Theater.

He was preceded in death by his parents and long-time companion, Marvin Chester.

He is survived by a sister, Cheryl Mapou; two nieces, Jocelyn and Tracy; special friends he considered as family, Brenda and Chris Brown and their children, Rachael, Elijah and Zoe; Annick Bellemain, Marcia Vliet, Jan Hanson and Jeanette Loutsch; and many other friends.

Memorial contributions may be made to the USAO Stuart Meltzer Scholarship Fund or the Chickasha Animal Shelter.

Burial will be at Fairlawn Cemetery. Services are under the direction of McRay Funeral Home.

Richard Lee Quillin

Funeral for Richard Lee Quillin, age 55 of Chickasha will be held at 2:00 pm on Tuesday, January 23, 2024, at Full Gospel Church.

Richard Lee Quillin, a beloved son, brother and father, passed away on January 18, 2024, in Chickasha. He was born on November 10, 1968 in Oklahoma City to Rick and Shirley Quillin.

Richard's life was defined by his unwavering love for others and his commitment to serving those in need. His involvement with the Salvation Army exemplified this dedication as he selflessly gave of himself to help those less fortunate. He connected with people from all walks of life and offered them comfort during their most challenging times. When he wasn't busy helping others, he would be hanging out with his beloved family, making incredible memories that will last for generations.  Richard will be deeply missed by all who knew him. Family, friends and colleagues admired his dedication and strangers were touched by his acts of kindness they may never forget.

Richard is preceded in death by his brother Kevin Quillin, his mother Shirley Quillin, multiple aunts, uncles and cousins with whom he is now reunited.

Survivors include his father Rick Quillin, brother and sister-in-law, Michael and Kristin Quillin, daughter and son-in-law, Tiffany and Edy Tjung, daughter Peyton Quillin, three grandchildren: Recca Tjung, Kairi Tjung, and Rylee Flanagan and several loving nieces, nephews and cousins.

Burial will be in Fairlawn Cemetery.  Services are under the direction of McRay Funeral Home.

Charley Bill Cockrum

Funeral service for Charley Cockrum, age 93, of Chickasha, will be held at 1 pm on Tuesday, January 9, 2024, at the Main Street Church of Christ in Alex.

Charley was born the son of Thomas Edward Cockrum and Blanche Edith Cockrum (Geary) on February 21, 1930, in Henderson, Arkansas.  He died on January 5, 2024, in Chickasha.

As a youth, Charley and his family moved to Missouri.  He graduated from high school in Bakersfield, Missouri, in 1947.  After graduation, he went to work for the Corp of Engineers building the Bull Shoals Dam.  He married Agnes Maynard in 1949.  In 1952, they moved to Bakersfield, California, where he worked for 76 Union Oil.  He and Agnes divorced in 1966.  In the late 1960s, he moved to West Plains, Missouri.  He met Eva Watson and they were married in 1972.  He and Eva farmed and ranched and he also hauled fertilizer.  He lived in Missouri until 2020 when he had to move to Chickasha after being injured by falling off a ladder at the age of 90 shaking walnuts out of a tree.

He was preceded in death by his wife, Eva Watson Cockrum, his father and mother, brothers Thomas Edward Cockrum, Jim Cockrum, Henry Cockrum and sister Mary Cockrum Lamb.

He is survived by one son, Charles Dwayne Cockrum and wife Janice of Chickasha, one daughter, Barbara Mitchusson and husband Don of Bradley, one step-son, Charles Watson and wife Vicki of West Plains, Missouri and one brother, Harvey Pete Cockrum of Harrison, Arkansas. He is survived by grandchildren Colton Cockrum and wife Casey of Memphis, Tennessee, Dawn Buffington and husband Lance of Tulsa, Lisa Mitchusson and husband Denny of Pocasset, Toni Mills and husband J. R. of Edmond and Daniel Mitchusson of Oklahoma City.  He is survived by great-grandchildren Coleman Cockrum, Callie Cockrum, Valerie Davis, Nikki Davis, Trace Brantley and wife Michaela, Jared Cole and Kaylee, Nathan Mills, Connor Mills and Andrew Mills.  He is also survived by great-great-grandchildren Ryder, Jaxson and Zaxton.

Burial will be in the Bradley Cemetery.  Services are under the direction of McRay Funeral Home.

The family would like to thank Brookdale Assisted Living, Choice Hospice, and Around The Clock for the care they provided.